If you usually have a full beard and that's how your wife loves you, don't take it all off because you feel like a smooth face goes better with a tux. DON'T drastically change your facial hair before your own wedding. Here are a few tips to help make the decision easier-although ultimately this is as personal a choice as a bride's hairstyle, one that depends on your own style, preferences, and wedding vibe. Shankar, the groom from one of the gorgeous real weddings Kim recently featured, went for neatly trimmed facial hair To shave or not to shave? From what the men in my life have told me, this is one of the main dilemmas guys ponder before any wedding (their own, one they're a groomsman in, or even one they're just attending).